Lessons Learned from Interviewing Tim Ferriss, SaaS Business Ideas for OnlyFans, and More

So he's written, I think, 5 or 6 bestselling business books, nonfiction business books, business life hack type books. And if he was going to do just another one of those, it would've been like, okay, cool. Like, you know, just going back to the, you know, what butter is your bread, right? That makes sense. But instead he's like, I'm going to build like a world, like Game of Thrones. He's like, I'm going to build a whole thing like this. Like, I'm going to, it's an entire fantasy world. All the characters are roosters. Okay. There's 8 houses. They compete in the great games and they do this, like, you know, then, you know, there's a war and there's different classes and there's all the, all the things. Like if you create like a, a sort of a giant fantasy, like, you know, Tolkien or, or George R.R. Martin style thing. And along with it, there's like basically an NFT, which you can buy that basically is not like, is, it's literally just like you're buying a piece of art and you're buying a ticket into the entertainment of like watching him build this world out. What's up? In this episode, we're talking about hanging out with Tim Ferriss, a guy that we've looked up to for a long time, and some of the insights that he, he shared with us. We talk about, uh, meeting a real estate billionaire and his model, how he built from scratch in 7 years to about $1 billion in real estate assets. We talked about the opportunity to build SaaS tools for OnlyFans. Uh, you're gonna want to hear that. And then last but not least, Sam's got a, uh, a friend who's created his own, I don't know, religion? Sort of like the Amish people who love money.

Kinda. It is almost like Amish people who love money. I'm going to this thing. I'm going to give a big update on it next week, but in this episode, when we start off, I'll tell you a little bit about it. I think you're going to dig it. But yes, that's the episode. Listen up. All right, we live.

Can I tell you about an interesting call I had with, uh, with your old pal, Tim Ferriss.

I'm so eager to hear this. I only asked you a few questions because I was waiting to hear about this.

So I interviewed Tim Ferriss because he's got like a new NFT project that came out today, or it's coming out today. And, um, wonderfully named. Yeah. Called Cockpunch. Right. So I was like, okay, what's that about? And, um, I was like, yo, you should come on the Milk Road and like tell your story and, um, blah, blah, blah. And I've met Tim Ferriss one time in my life. You've met him a lot more than that, I think, because he was an investor in The Hustle and was kind of like, lived around the same area as you or whatever. But I've met him one time and I guess I'll, I'll just, I want to tell you three things. One, it's pretty interesting to meet people who you've really gotten to know through their content. Uh, what was it the OnlyFans girl who came on here called it? The parasocial relationship, where it's like, I feel like I know a lot about you, and to you I'm a complete stranger. But you know, I feel like we're close friends because I know so much about you, and you don't even know who the hell I am. That's how I feel with Tim Ferriss.

That's how people feel with you and I, I bet.

Yeah, happens with, with you and I. Um, and you know, I was like, well, it's just like a weird dynamic.

It's not weird.

It's not like bad or good. It's like a strange dynamic. It's a natural thing that happens with content like this. So I read The 4-Hour Workweek when I was in college and I got, you know, before COVID-19, there was the 4-hour fever and the 4-hour fever was what happened to you, right? When you read that book for the next 4 hours, you question every part of your life and you start fever dreaming about quitting everything, you know, hiring a VA to do your job, going and living in Argentina and, you know, like basically creating some online passive income business is gonna give you $7K a month cuz that's your freedom number. And so like, and I know this because everybody I gave book to, I'm like, look, you might wanna clear the schedule cuz you're gonna have the 4-Hour fever as soon as you're done with this. Uh, like just don't make plans because whatever they are, they're gonna get busted by this. And sure enough, that's exactly what happened. So 4-Hour Workweek was one of those books that I found to be really, really life-changing. Uh, informative, life-changing, especially at the time that I read it. I was 20, 21 years old trying to figure out what I wanted to do with my life. And, um, it was a new, it was somebody saying, yo, here's how I live. And it was totally different than anybody else. Okay. So that's how I knew him. Um, you knew him in a different way. Could you describe how you knew him? And then I wanna tell you some of the takeaways I had from this interview.

So I initially met him when I was, I was coming home at 6:00 AM from the hospital after I got a kidney stone. My wife was driving me and I was sitting in the passenger seat and I was super messed up on morphine and all types of drugs. And I pull up to my house and I go, Sarah, What the hell is Tim Ferriss doing in front of our house? And I see him, I go, Tim, what's up, bro? What are you doing here? And he's like, oh, I looked at the blog. I was like, oh, sick. Hey, you got any cures for kidney stones? And I just sounded like a total asshole. And then 2 days later, I see him again. I go, Tim, what's going on, man? I just want to apologize. I was coming from the hospital. I was all hopped up on drugs, but I'm a huge fan. That's cool that you live around here. And then through that, we just started walking our dogs like in the park every once in a while together. And I would just see him in the park. Then a few weeks later, I get an email from Tim saying, hey, I want to learn about emailing. I like the hustle. Teach me about it. Can you go out? Can you meet me at this restaurant in my neighborhood? I go meet him at that restaurant. He goes, oh, what the hell? You're the dog guy? I go, what's up, man? He goes, why didn't you— So I basically, he cold emailed me and I never told him who I was. And it was a total coincidence. And that's how I got to know him.

He's super quiet and shy.

And he's a little bit introverted or shy. And then when he did say things, I was like, oh wow, that's a little bit of the Tim Ferriss that I've heard or followed. Coming out, but also I was like, you know, even though I love 10 things about this guy, there's a couple things about him that I wouldn't want to emulate, right? There's 6 things I'd want to copy, let's say, about the way that Tim Ferriss lives his life. But I was like, oh, you know, something that's really important to me is like, let's say kids or having a family. And I don't know if it's important to him or not. I don't know him that well, but he doesn't have that. So I don't want to, I don't want to be him, right? I don't want to be the whole, but there's parts of him that I think are awesome that I would love to steal for my game. And I think about this with everybody.

I imagine you like standing over him and he's just sitting down when you're poking them with a stick and you're like, come on, tell me life hacks. Like, come on.

Yeah, basically what you did with your kidney stone things. Like, you ever seen— do you have one of these on your feet? What do you do?

Yeah, what's this rash?

I don't know, man, maybe you should ask a doctor. And so same thing with Tony Robbins. I love Tony Robbins, but do I love the whole Tony Robbins? No, I love parts of Tony Robbins. And some people are like, dude, what about that thing he did or that thing he said? I'm like, ah, I don't, I mean, I don't know about that. And if he did those, that, that would be bad. But I love his public speaking. I think he's amazing at that. And that's what I try to steal from, right? Or I love his mindset around XYZ, and that's what I've adopted from him. That's been really helpful. And there's other stuff that's either not applicable or not admirable. Oh, it's fine. I just don't take that, right? I'm just walking through the farmer's market, picking up little bits and pieces of people and being like, oh, you know, like Conor McGregor now is like, basically looks like he's like a 'roid head, you know, like, cokehead. I don't know, he's got allegations of sexual assault and he's just coked out, or who knows, this guy's nuts. But like, Conor McGregor from the years 2015 to 2018, yeah, you know, what they call the young hungry Conor, that's the Conor I liked. That was the things I drew a lot from. And I don't let the other stuff really tarnish that because I'm just only looking for the good, and the bad I just say, oh, somebody else can pick that that bad apple up. I'm not taking that out.

All right.

So what about him? So that's just my general philosophy. Okay. So let me tell you some of the nuggets that I took away from this interview, because it was supposed to be, I mean, frankly speaking, it was supposed to be like, Tim Ferriss comes on the Milk Road.

That's cool.

That's just sort of like a bucket list item thing for me. But, you know, for him, obviously it was a good way to get the word out about his NFT project. So I thought, I went in with like, you know, pretty low expectations. Generally when somebody goes on to like announce the launch of something, they're kind of just shilling that thing. He didn't do that. So that was kind of cool. And he said a bunch of things that were, I would, I would say life advice or money advice that I thought were interesting. Do you want the money or the life one first? Money. All right. Money one. So I was like, what, Tim, what are you doing? You know, crypto prices are crashing. What are you doing? Um, are you making any adjustments? Do you look at the prices?

He's a crypto guy, by the way.

And by the way, for the Shopify example, it looks like 6 months after it was around $2.50 a share. At its peak, at its peak peak, it was $150. So that's something like, you know, $1 million of shares that he had, which he definitely could have had, would have been like $50 million, uh, which was like very substantial.

And so he was pointing out, you know, my mistakes in investing haven't been buying the wrong thing. The biggest mistakes have been selling the right thing too early. And you know, I think that might be, you know, he's like, you know, I don't know if this applies to everybody, but he's like, for me, that has been, you know, some of my largest kind of, uh, missteps. Um, okay. So then the second thing he was talking about, uh, this project that he's doing, this NFT project. And I was like, so this is kind of crazy. I don't know if you know what he, do you know what he's doing?

Do you know what it is? So I know that he's always been interested in nonfiction writing. Or sorry, fiction writing. Like he's always wanted to write like stories and for some reason he hasn't until now. Right. And I think this is like his first fictional story or book or series of podcasts and it comes with an NFT, right?

Yeah, exactly. So he's written, I think, 5 or 6 bestselling business books, nonfiction business books, uh, business life hack type books. And if he was gonna do just another one of those, it would've been like, okay, cool. Like, you know, just going back to the, you know, what butter is your bread, right? That's, that makes sense. But instead he's like, I'm going to build like a world like Game of Thrones. He's like, I'm going to build a whole thing like this. Like I'm going to, it's an entire fantasy world. All the characters are roosters. Okay. There's 8 houses. They compete in the great games and they do this like, you know, then, you know, there's a war and there's different classes and this, all the, all the things. Like if you create like a, a sort of a giant fantasy, like, you know, Tolkien or or George R.R. Martin style thing. And along with it, there's like basically an NFT, which you can buy that basically is not like— is, is literally just like you're buying a piece of art and you're buying a ticket into the entertainment of like watching him build this world out.

It's a book, like one book.

It's not a book. It's like, I think it's just like long. He's like, I've written 10,000 words, but, uh, I don't think he's going to release it like a book. I think he's going to release it in some other way, like essays or chapters or podcasts and other— he's playing with different formats. I don't think he knows exactly how he wants it to come out yet. So anyways, pretty interesting. I was like, dude, so why are you doing this? He's like, well, he said a couple nuggets. He goes, you know, I'm having the most fun when I'm creating something, and that's what gets me into flow state. And so he's like, so I knew I wanted to create something, and I wanted to— if I just did another nonfiction book, I don't feel like I would have that magical feeling of being challenged and satisfied at the same time.

Yeah.

Um, and so he goes, he goes, he goes, I talked to the guy from who did— Steven Pressfield, who I think wrote, uh, The War of Art. Yeah. Um, and he goes, he goes, you know, um, he has this concept of a muse, which is like the project you're working on, or like, you know, the thing that you're, you're playing with. And he goes, you're doing your muse a disservice if you don't go big. And, uh, he goes, so I decided like, if I'm going to do this, I'm going to go big. And he goes, big is not, um, I have to write like an 8,000-word book or whatever, like an 8,000-page book. Like that's big. Doesn't mean like literal volume. Big means I have to go to a point where I'm uncomfortable with this. And my friends are calling me and they're saying, Tim, are you okay? Are you sure this is what you want to do? And he's like, that's how I know that I've like pushed it into a realm that's like something interesting is going to happen.

And that's how I feel with this.

Yeah, what's up with this podcast?

What do you mean? No, with him coming up with a nonfiction thing called, or a fiction thing called Cut Points. Yeah, you want to call him and be like, I'm like, yeah, I'm like, you know, you have nothing to lose here because like, you know, you're set, you're fine. And if this is creative, that's cool. But like, it's kind of weird. What are you, what are you doing, man? Like, are you okay?

And I'm good at that. He draws? Like, like he did the animation?

Yeah, his background was like illustrations and comics. Like, that's how he made college and stuff like that. Yeah. He's like a sketch artist. And I think that's what he originally wanted to do was be a cartoonist in some way. What a fascinating person. And so he was like, you know, those are my superpowers. I got to spend the time on that. If I just end up spending time managing this thing and it feels like a lot of administrative work, I know that for me, that gives me no energy, therefore no endurance, therefore I won't stay, stay with it, therefore the great things won't happen. And I thought the self-awareness was really key. And this is something that I know as I think about my next projects, these are the types of like, you need to have like these strong ass pillars or tenets of like, this is what it, this is what I am doing and this is what I'm not doing. And if I do this, I think it'll work. And if I don't do this, I know that it, uh, I will have trouble. And I think that self-awareness was pretty baller.

Dude, that's awesome. He's always been a pretty wise person. Even like, you know, I think he wrote 4-Hour Workweek when he was maybe a little bit younger than you and I, like he might have been only 30 when he wrote it. And he always was pretty wise, man. He's always had like interesting insight. And that's a really good insight about the energy and the endurance thing.

And is this still the life or the money advice or the life one?

Now we're in the life advice.

Yeah, dude, he's good, man. He's a really interesting guy. I, uh, what's he doing now? So he just like, is he, is he treating that as like, that's been his like 40-hour work week? Like that's been his job job.

Uh, for— yeah, he's been— he's just going ham on this for like, you know, close to a year now. And he's like, dude, I've just put so many, so many hours into this. He's like, yeah. And which is funny because people are criticizing like, oh dude, you're doing an NFT. You're just like another celebrity doing an NFT. It's just a cash grab. And I like, I told him this on the call. I was like, dude, that's crazy to me. First of all, he's donating 100% of the proceeds to like his charity that does like the research on like psychedelics and stuff like that to treat PTSD. So, so all the primary sales are going there, right? Uh, so that's like, you know, most, you know, that's a huge chunk of the financial reason you would do it. Uh, the second thing is, um, if you just count like the number of hours it takes to do this world building type of thing, like he's got to be working for minimum wage basically just in terms of the number of hours it takes to create something like this. And third, if he was going to do a cash grab NFT, he would have done it last year. He wouldn't be launching it now and he wouldn't be giving away the money to charity and he would be like doing it in a way that's like not, doesn't require him to like build out this whole fictional world. Like he would just be like, hey, here's a picture. Hey, meet this, you know, this gives you 5 minutes to talk to Tim Ferriss. Right. That's what he would do is just like a cash grab if he wanted to do it. And so I thought that was like, you know, dude, one of the funny criticism.

Tim has like a really interesting celebrity. Ryan Holiday has this too. And I know I've known a few guys that have had this where there's people I look up to and then there's people who the people I look up to look up to. So like Ryan and Tim, they both get like all these football coaches, all these like politicians, these rich billionaire types, all these interesting, like powerful, traditionally powerful people will reach out to them and like, hey, sensei, show me the way. What can I do about this? What should I do next? And I have always found that type of celebrity to be incredibly fascinating. And so like, I mean, he'll— Tim will like, not in a bad way, but he'll like name drop all these stories like on the pod. I'll be like, yeah, you know, I was with Ed Norton recently and he was telling me like this, this, and this, and I was trying to help him like figure out what to do, you know, like he like tells these stories or like when I was with Jamie Foxx, he was asking me about this. And, uh, I've always found that celebrity to be so fascinating. I've always wondered what his life is like.

So I'll wrap up with one last story about Tim. And this, what you're saying, kind of like, he'll, he'll say these things sometimes in interviews as if he's coming off the cuff or that he's like just thinking out loud. I have never met someone like him who prepares for everything. He prepares for every single thing. And this is quite different than you and I. You and I are totally cool improvising. And you would think someone like him who's interviewed all these people or has talked publicly for so many hours that they can improvise. Maybe he can, but from my experience, he is not someone who improvises. And he— everything he says, the words are chosen very, very specifically. And so you like— he'll say this line like, oh, I don't play a doctor on TV and I don't pretend to do that. Like, he'll say that line and like, that's just like, he must have heard that somewhere. He's like, okay, that's actually a good line to get. That's a good brand message. Disarm. Yeah, I'm going to keep saying that. And so another thing that he'll do is like, One time I interviewed him for The Hustle and I interviewed him on the phone and then I transcribed it. And there was a couple instances where I made an error. So he was right to yell at me and he didn't yell at me, but he was just like, no, this is— that's not what I said. And we're talking about like I would write the word hadn't instead of had not. He said had not and I wrote hadn't. So I was in fact wrong. And he like very specifically called that out and he did that. So he's like, no, there shouldn't be a comma here. There should be a period and then a new sentence. Or like these like incredibly, incredibly—

if he did that, then he's going to be pretty pissed at this interview, cuz I definitely like, dude, you know, move stuff around to help him.

No, he does not like that, and I don't blame him. He is so specific about his brand. And in fact, if you go and see the— like, for example, there's this conference called 212 that I went to, and Tim went, and he gave a testimonial for it. And if you read the testimonial, it's very specific where in his head he's like, well, I can't endorse anything. Like, but I, but I can say is, you know, Adam hosted a great conference. They're wonderful. He's, he's a wonderful person. Or like, like, you know, like some people will ask us, you and I, like I've asked you to do a testimonial for something and you're like, just write whatever. No, not him. Everything about his brand, like what you see out in public and what he writes, he is very specific and it's all incredibly well thought out. So like we almost had him speak at a conference or something like that. And we just like went through, we just started chatting about it. And he was like wanting to know exactly who all was there. And I'm like, what do you mean, dude? Why does it matter to you? Just like fucking wing it. Just talk. And like, that's not his style at all. Like it was all incredibly precise, well thought out. It's all, and everything had a purpose. And I've always found that to be very admirable about him because I remember being pissed off when he, he didn't yell at me, but like he kind of like had a tone where he's like, No, that's not what I said. This is what I said. And I remember being upset about that. And then I was like, nah, man, he's right. He's, he has a brain and he's sticking to it. And I always thought that was really interesting. Yeah.

Well, all right, Tim, I'm sorry. I did, uh, definitely chop and chop up the interview to, to try to make it shorter and better.

When's it go live? When's it go live?

It's already live. Too late.

Tell me if he replies to you. That's going to be the follow-up. I bet you he will. He, he will see. He's very specific about it. And I, and I appreciate that.

You're right. I had told him, I was like, um, he's like, he's like, yeah, I'll do it. Uh, you know, just send me the questions in advance. So I want to make sure I can prepare and do the best job I can. And I was like, well, I don't know the questions I'm going to ask you. So, uh, okay, I guess I'll do the work now. And so I did it. And then he's like, okay, cool. Uh, for this question, I think we should do this and this on this. And I was like, wow, this is like way more in depth than anybody. And then even during the thing, he's like, he's like, I did an audio video test earlier, blah, blah, blah. It should be good. Cause he's like, you know, whatever, in some foreign country right now. And he's like, you know, I, um, and then on some of the answers, he's like, okay, stop. Can we, um, can I redo that? I think I was not being clear there. And then he would like do it again. And I was like, wow, we're so different, but I get why being the way that you are leads you to have the type of brand and success that you have. Um, I am so different than that. I am like, you know, complete— I'm basically like the equivalent of a food fight and he's like a Michelin star restaurant.

Exactly. Dude, it's so fascinating.

I'm just throwing mashed potatoes around and getting it everywhere. And he's like, you know, got that perfect plate.

Dude, I remember we were with our dogs, like walking and I go, oh, that's a cool dog leash. And like, or like cool dog collar or something. And he, and I was expecting him to be like, oh yeah, got it on Amazon. It's pretty great. He was like, oh, this thing, you see, this comes from like this rare, like African horse hair. And like he had like some in-depth story about it. And that was my— and then I noticed every time something like we had these conversations, everything about his life, it felt very purposeful, high intent, intentional.

Yeah.

I thought that was fascinating.

Yeah, that's cool. Uh, it really highlights like, it's like you see a 12 out of 10 at being very intentional, and then you're like, oh wow, I thought I might have been an 8 or a 9. Actually, I'm a 4.

Totally.

He's very specific.

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Yeah, let's do some other topics. Okay, so, uh, where do you want to shift to? Maybe some ideas?

Uh, what's— is Spotify interesting? Or the real estate insights? That's— I'm interested in that.

How do I, how do I— I mean, the Hobby Lobby folks are always gonna need a lobby to hobby, bro. Like they're, they're, they're, they're going in real life.

Like, so, so that's what he said. He goes, you're right. He goes, but there are some specific trends, some specific categories that are going completely anti-trend and expanding.

Like Home Depot, probably.

Cause I go, I go, how does it work? He goes, I go, what's your edge? Like, what are you doing differently than anybody else? Cause you're getting a dramatically better result than anybody else I know in real estate. He goes, well, I'll get a call from, you know, the owner of, uh, you know, whatever, Dollar General or something like that.

And they'll say, hey, literally, well, not the owner, like, like an executive, like someone, an executive there.

Okay, second thing.

And I go, but doesn't that guy just think like, man, if I just did this, he goes, yeah, but it's speculation. He goes, I know, because I have these relationships, I know they'll come through. That owner would have to like on spec invest in maybe improving some part of their property in order to make it more inhabitable. I'll just do it.

And by the way, so he gets the Hobby Lobby, like, interest, then he can go get a loan and tell the bank, hey, I got interest, uh, in this, therefore—

This sounds like the best business ever. Yeah, exactly. And they're like, oh, Hobby Lobby's not going out of business anytime soon. You have a 10-year tenant. Yeah, this is an easy— this is all easy.

Mm-hmm.

It's like, okay, that's interesting. Tell me more. And he goes, he goes, the other thing is that, um, uh, they will have like, um, Uh, you gave me some other deal-making points, but I'll leave those out. Some of those are, you know, maybe a little like, I don't know, personal or secretive, I guess. But I go, okay, what about these tenants? I go, who are these people? Who's trying to expand? I thought the whole retail landscape is like shrinking and collapsing, uh, and Amazon's killing everybody. He goes, yes, but there are certain categories. So he goes, anything DIY. So Hobby Lobby is an example of this. DIY, people like to go in, they like to see the stuff, they like to have the stuff, they need a bunch of inventory in a big space.. Um, so they're willing to rent these big stores. He goes, another one, anything that caters to the Black and Latino community. He goes, for some reason those groups are not buying online as much as, you know, white, white or Indians or other, other races.

He goes, what stores are—

because they're not buying online, their stores are still thriving. And he goes, and I asked them, you know, like, why do you think, uh, it'll be like, um, Burlington Coat Factory.

Got it.

Or, uh, things like that. And he's like, he's like, for Burlington Coat Factory, he's like, A lot of these places, they're not just like, oh, I just need a shirt. Let me go buy the shirt. Okay. If you wanted to do that, Amazon might be more convenient or ordering online might be more convenient.

Like I need a coat today.

For a lot of these communities, it's a hangout. It's like, this is the one place we go when we leave the house. We go for an outing and we go to this place. And, um, he's like, so that is like a big piece of like, it's like part of their lifestyle is to go to stores and hang out and, you know, do the whole, do the whole nine. He's like, so those stores are all thriving. He goes, the third one is anything that's like super low end. So dollar store, um, style, style things because they're actually cheaper than online and they don't have to have the shipping problems. And so people, if, if you want the lowest price, that's still the place to go. Fourth is, he goes, like your wife and my wife, home goods and home improvement. So go to HomeGoods. It's like, he goes, they're treasure hunt, treasure hunt experiences.

So what's that like? So TJ Maxx or HomeGoods?

TJ Maxx, Ross, uh, Marshalls, uh, HomeGoods, uh, things like that. He goes, They go because there's a joy in finding an amazing deal. Yeah. And so they, they don't want the most efficient experience where they just go online and they just buy the thing and they're done. There's this actually like the joy of the hunt. So they want to go to this big messy store and they want to find gems and they want to do that. And again, that's their outing, that's their fun, that's their hobby. And so the retail store still really matters. And so he gave me this like list of categories that were like still expanding. And I thought that was pretty interesting. It's like, some of the, the nuance that you don't really pay attention to unless you're like in that field. And so I just appreciated kind of talking to somebody who's super fascinating, knows their stuff in that area.

How many people work at this person's company? Like less than a dozen?

No, it's probably like somewhere between 20 and 30, I would say overall.

Man, that seems like, it seems too boring for me. Like I, I, I think I would, I, for some reason I pick things that probably make less money but are more dopamine hit.

What skills or attributes does this person have? You think that sets them apart?

Extremely aggressive.

They are.

They're aggressive. Like when you talk, when you talk to them, you almost feel like at any given moment, like, uh, It's like, are we, are we, are we laughing or are we fighting? What's happening here? Like, they're a very friendly person. It's not that, nothing wrong with that, but they are aggressively minded where it's like, we play to win. Uh, like the way they raise their kids is to win. It's like, um, like their kids, like, you know, if they do something bad, they don't go to timeout. They do 20 burpees. And it's like, you know, that's like, it's like standard. It's like, okay, before dinner, we're going to go run wind sprints. And then like, yeah, that's just how we do things before dinner. Um, and like girls, boys, 2-year-old, 10-year-old, doesn't matter. Like whoever you are, this is how we are, how we roll.

Well, now your back's gonna hurt. You just got lawn, lawn care duty.

Yeah. I mean, exactly. Like there's a, there's just a play to win mentality. That's the first thing. Second thing is giant, giant chip on shoulder, massive insecurity. Daddy didn't love me. Uh, daddy was mean to me. Um, people said I wasn't shit. Uh, people said I would never be something. Hold on to that, use that as fuel. Um, and that same thing that kind of like, and you know, they'll say like, yeah, that stuff doesn't bother me anymore. It's like, yeah, but you brought it up to me 8 times in the last 3 years. So like, I think there's like, you haven't let it go. That's for sure. You know, I think you've used it to a very, very productive end for sure. But that, that chip on your shoulder is like, you know, what do they say? Chip on shoulder equals chip in pockets, uh, chips in pockets. That's what That's what's happening. So, um, that's the second trait. Third is amazing at deal-making, negotiation, deal-making, gift of gab. Um, spends very little time in front of computer, spends a lot of time in front of people or on the phone, tons of time on the phone. And like, I feel like for our generation, like how much time do you—

dude, I fucking hate talking on the phone. I just click and hang up.

And on talking to, you know, potential business things on the phone. Never. I spend Essentially zero. And in fact, if even if there's a business opportunity, they're like, hey, I'd love to do a call. Like I just tell 'em straight up, hey, I hate doing calls, but if you write it down, like I'm happy to respond.

And then like, I won't even listen to it just to like a voice memo. Yeah. Like I'm not, I'm not doing any of that.

That's hilarious. Yeah. So this person spends a lot of time on the phone and they do that to gather tons of info and they'll just, if I, they're like driving a bunch and they'll just dial, okay, I'm, I'm driving 4 hours to go see this property. In that time, I'm going to make 14 phone calls or whatever. And I'm, hey brother, what's going on? What you seeing? Oh, what happened to that property you had out there? Oh, you having trouble? Well, send me the numbers. Let me take a look. Maybe I can help you out. Blah, blah, blah. You know, like, and they're just constantly surfacing opportunities or information. Oh, that guy's doing, having some trouble. Interesting. Like, oh, this person, you know, they're underwater there. Oh, I know Hobby Lobby wants to be there. So I'm going to, you know, okay, good. Let me, let me make that happen.. And so they just find these, these deals like that.

That's fascinating to me. I love learning that. That's one of the traits, dude. I love it.

Um, very different. Like honestly, pretty standard for the real estate world. None of the things I said so far are like shocking to anybody that's in real estate, but for us in the tech world, it's a very different play style. It's totally different set of strengths, you know, activities than what we do. So for us it's like, ooh, that's cool. That's new.

That's crazy to me, dude. By the way, my father is like that. He owns a business where when he spends his winters in Florida, he brings a phone that plugs into the wall and he brings a fax machine and it just constantly calling like, hey, what you got? What you hear? And what's good? And like the, his company, you know, sells millions and millions of dollars worth of stuff and it's just with a fucking phone, a fax machine and mailing checks and just constantly calling like, hey, what you got? What you hear? And it like, that's just how the business is. It's crazy, man. And they kill it.

Par here, talk to me.

That's what they do. They go, what's good, brother? What's going on? Or he'll call people nephew. What's up, nephew? What's good?

You gotta work at a barbershop if you're gonna just call non-nephews nephew. You gotta be black and in a barbershop. I can't believe that your dad gets away with that.

That's amazing. He's kinda like that. I'll be like, what's up, nephew? He just calls people nephew.

What's up, young blood?

He just calls people nephew. Um, all right, well, you wanna do one more?

Uh, let me tell you about a space that I've been poking around in. It's not something I'm gonna do, but there's definitely opportunity. You know, I poked the, the beehive and I heard some buzzing. I don't want to go near it, but like somebody who wants honey, go there.

That's a very good analogy.

Piece together that analogy. I didn't know what the next word was gonna be.

Yeah, you just had words coming outta your mouth, not sure how the sentence I was gonna end it and it totally found its place. Wonderful.

That was really satisfying. All right, so, um, so OnlyFans. Okay, so we've talked about OnlyFans a bunch, but let me tell you the angle that I'm thinking about here.

So by the way, I do not give a shit about OnlyFans. Everyone talks about OnlyFans. The only thing I care about is Brap Barbie. Do you know who that is? I think that's her name. Bad— is that it?

Bad Bobby? What did you just say?

I thought it was Brap. I thought it was Brad the Barbie. Is there like an R and an H in the first word? Just an H. Just the H. Wait, it's bad? That's how you spell bad?

Yeah, I feel like you— I feel like you're up to speed on Bad Bobby. What's her name? Bad Barbie?

What's her name? I don't know. Bad Baby. I just know her as the catch me outside girl from Mari, but, uh, or Dr. Phil or some bullshit. Anyway, that's the only person I know, and it's like she changed like races. Wait, is she black now or white? What is she supposed to be?

She's white. She's now black. Oh, well, have you seen her? Google, Google Bad Baby, right?

Whatever. She, she, she switched.

She's Jewish and her mom's Italian. She really? And then, and then now she's being like criticized because she's like, people say it's like modern day blackface because she's like really like changed her look. Like, when she was on Dr. Phil, she looked like, you know, like a spoiled white girl or something like that. And anyways, whatever, it doesn't matter.

Brat Barbie, whatever the fuck her name is, she kills it. She kills it. And like, apparently she bought like a $20 million home— $20 million house. So whatever. So, so bad Barbie.

Point is, company crushes it. So they do billions of dollars in revenue. Uh, the owner, whose name is now public so we can talk about him, Leo, he's a fan of the pod, friend of the house. He, um, I think they, he cleared, or, or, you know, like the, the company cleared $500 million in profits in 2020 or 2021. Like, just an insanely profitable, insanely big business. Okay. And what is OnlyFans? OnlyFans is basically like a storefront where anybody can sell pictures or videos. So you're selling content. And so, you know, I do, I do e-commerce. I come from the Shopify world. I know that in Shopify, Shopify is your storefront. That's your equivalent of OnlyFans. Uh, but you use like this whole host of tools around it to make your store sell better, to increase sales. So you'll use Klaviyo to, you know, grab people's email addresses and then send them automated emails.

I know where you're going with this one.

And there are— they have— so like, but do they have an ecosystem?

Like, uh, you don't need— you don't— the, the— they just use it on their own. You don't have to like plug into OnlyFans. You just like, um, there's not like a platform you have to go be approved to sell under to be an app, like the way Shopify does. You got to be in the Shopify app.

But do they have like a— so, oh, so they don't have— but there's no OnlyFans app store?

No, you just, you just sign up and you just use products. So for example, there are products that are like chatbots. So what they do is somebody follows you or they subscribe, uh, either they're a free follower or maybe they're paying the $5 a month subscription. But what you, where you really make your money is what they call pay-per-view. And so that's where you sell like, oh, I did a photo shoot, uh, whatever. Like, you know, I dressed up like Catwoman, pay $19 to unlock, right? That piece of content. And so what these bots, these SaaS tools are doing is they basically are like, Hey, we will go message all of your followers as if it's you being like, hey, did you see my Catwoman thing? I think you're going to love it. Follow up 24 hours later. Um, like picture 3 in the album was like just for you, wink face, whatever. Right? Like this is just a bot. And what is this? This is a sales rep that is going around for you doing sales and selling your content, selling your product. And so the, all the tools today are pretty rudimentary. They are pretty, um, or they're just like, They're just missing certain things from certain ecosystems. And I think somebody could do what, uh, what Andrew, uh, Andrew Wilkinson did with WeCommerce, where he basically rolled up a set of plugins and tools. I think that you could do that in the OnlyFans world. Now to do this, why am I not doing this? Well, I don't want to deal with people on OnlyFans every day. I don't want to be like selling this content every day. It's not like, what's it called? Like, it's not my ikigai.

It's not the thing I was put on this earth to do.

Yeah. But we got a bunch of friends who are less, you know, uh, a little less, uh, different.

Yeah, different standards. Maybe we were not going to say lower or higher standards, we'll say more wide.

Wider standards.

Yeah, left to right. Yeah, it's not, it's not a, you know, our bar's up here, it's someone else's bar's down here. It's just different bars. It's a little wider. Yeah.

So if you're one of these wide standard fellas out there, I think there's a lot of opportunity. If your moral compass is a little wobbly, uh, and there's a whole, but the whole ecosystem, right? So you want to start an agency, OnlyFans agencies do really, really well, right? Because they take care of the back office, they take care of growth for, for these OnlyFans creators. Um, I know two people personally that have built OnlyFans, like just SEO optimized websites that are like search engines. So it's like find a creator, discover a creator, search for a person.

And They're like metrics sites. Um, and they've built them and they're either like cash flowing really, really well, like, you know, to the tune of like, you know, $100 grand a month of free cash flow, or they sold them for like $2-3 million.

Is one of them called Fans Metric?

Dude, that's so fascinating.

These are the— there is so much opportunity to build SaaS tooling for these creators, to build agencies, to build, you know, a whole bunch of different, uh, opportunities around this ecosystem because most people aren't gonna go there, um, myself included. And if you do go there, the tool, it's like new and growing so fast that the pie is big, but it's not totally saturated the same way that Shopify feels quite saturated, or, you know, tools for iPhone developers or whatever seems pretty, pretty saturated.

Do you follow, um, have you ever seen that TikTok guy who goes up to people with fancy cars and he goes, hey, what do you do for a living? Yeah, of course. Uh, what's his name? Brandon Mack, I think, or something. Mack. Uh, it's awesome. And yeah, for some reason, all of it feels like all of the ones lately have all been, it's always hot girls and they like make jokes and then they finally admit that they do OnlyFans. And OnlyFans is one of those ideas where when, when I heard about it like 5 years ago, I'm like, who the fuck's gonna pay for that? Like, just Google it. Like, you'll see the same thing. Just like, yeah, Google that person's name followed by the word nude and you'll like find exactly what you want. Like, why would you pay $20 a month for this? And obviously they proved me wrong. And it's gotten to be such a huge thing that it seems like if I go to LA, do you see a hot girl in a fancy car? Like, just based off my— me scrolling in bed at night, it's like, oh, they're definitely an OnlyFans— it's an OnlyFans model. And that is like totally new and strange to me. And that is what has made me feel like, oh, this is like going to be much, actually much bigger. It's significantly more mainstream than I ever thought. Like, no one would make like Maybe now people will make jokes about Pornhub, but like every guy out there has like 5 or 10 porn sites that they go to and never in a million years would they say out loud what it is. Do you know what I mean?

And yeah, in fact, I'm not even gonna say any words for the rest of the segment.

And now it's like OnlyFans is like a thing that like, well, we, we talk about because it's like so mainstream popular. I find it to be incredibly fascinating. Like even just in the last 4 years, we started mentioning the word Pornhub. Because they would do funny skits like during the Super Bowl, or they would like, you know, do fun— it's like become a joke. But that has just happened.

By the way, one good idea was just to do another OnlyFans. So I forgot what it's called, Fansly or Fans Only. I think it's Fansly. Fansly is just like, if you don't want to be on OnlyFans, come on Fansly. And they're just like, well, we'll be number 2. It's fine. We'll make some different decisions. Like, we allow whatever, like you know, I don't know what they're different, like cartoon creators or something like that. Like, you know, I like, you'd be like a digital dude or whatever.

Like, there's 7 Minute Abs and some— Fansly is just going to be 6 Minute Abs. It's like, yeah, it's the same thing, just we charge you only 9% instead of 10%.

Exactly. And so, and then they're doing pretty well. Like, they do, they do, they do fairly well. And when— and so I think there was just— this was just one of those winning ideas. It was one of those really big winning ideas. I don't know if I told you this, by the way, I had a buddy who was a VC who kind of quit his job and was going to raise like his own fund. And then he was just like, he identified, I think 3 years ago, he goes, OnlyFans. And I go, what? And he goes, OnlyFans, it's going to be massive. And I go, I think it's already pretty big. At that time, it seemed pretty big for what it was. I was like, dude, how popular can this get?

Like, that's what's it worth now, you think? What could it sell for now? I don't even know.

Uh, I don't know. I think very, very conservatively $2 billion is my guess, and aggressively closer to $10. I don't know, you know, it's hard to say. Like, the— all the market, like, multiples just got changed, so it's hard to know. Also, you know, there's not that many buyers for OnlyFans, so there's a problem with it.

That's what I was getting at.

Yeah, can't really go public and there's not that many buyers, but it's super, super profitable. And so my buddy was like, it's gonna be big, I'm gonna spend the next year trying to ownership in OnlyFans. I go, what do you mean? I guess you're going to reach out? He goes, yeah, but if it doesn't work, I'm going to find a way to get ownership in OnlyFans. I was like, what? He's like, yeah, I'm just going to invest in it. I'm going to help them. I'm going to do anything I can. And he literally made that his mission for a year.

Did he get it?

Dude, what this— does he also own $600 million worth of real estate? This guy sounds awesome.

No, different guy.

Uh, yeah, I mean, I'm on board. I think, I think, uh, you know, WeCommerce is an interesting company. WeCommerce is Andrew Wilkinson, you know, fan of the pod or friend of the pod. He comes on all the time. Their market cap is decimated right now. It sucks right now, but their business is, is pretty good. Like, it's a good business. Um, it's way undervalued. Um, but it— I think it's an interesting model. And yeah, I'm, I'm on board with your aggressive friend who pushed his way into OnlyFans.

Do you, do you have a pregame routine you do before this podcast?

I listen to music and I review all my notes. That's about it.

Like, a specific song or just like generally whatever, whatever is on?

Well, I use Pandora. And then I, um, 1 hour before, so I have my schedule locked in. So for the people listening, we record for 1 hour. And so we're usually here at the top of the hour, then we start. And then 1 hour before that, it's my quiet time where I like review everything.

Quiet time. Nice.

Well, like people are like messaging me and I'm like, hey, I can't talk to you right now. I'm preparing. And so it's my time to like read notes and like I scan the news and I just wanna know what's going on in the world.

Yeah. My daughter has that. That's great. Quiet time. I love it. Um, what do you do? My sister invented this great thing cuz she's like, dude, my kids don't wanna sleep and they just wanna play. And so she's like, I gotta turn, like, she's like, I don't even care if they're asleep. I just want them to go to their room and just like not talk to me and just stay in the bed and like have fun. So she created Nighttime Sister Playtime. And so it's this like hilarious thing where they're like, oh, it's nighttime sister playtime. And they get to go run into their beds and like the two sisters can play together, but they have to be quiet. 'cause it's nighttime sister playtime. Nobody else is allowed in, which means don't bother mommy and daddy. And I just thought, what a hilarious rebrand of go in the room, shut the door, and shut up. And, and so that now whenever I'm doing something, like even work-wise, like with my coworkers and like our e-com thing or whatever, I'll be like, all right, it's nighttime sister playtime. Like that just means like, don't talk to me, don't bother me with Slack and don't talk to me. I'm gonna go do some work now. That's what I have.

Mommy and daddy gotta go do Dude, I just like, I blame everything on the pod. I'd be like, hey, can't, preparing for the pod. Don't talk to me, please. Because everyone knows it's like a deadline. Why, do you have a routine?

Um, I got a, well, I kind of have one, but I was making fun of myself this morning about it. So my schedule is similar, I think, to you where now the morning is all locked in where it's like I work out at a specific time. And then at the end of the workout, I do my like 10 minutes of like mindset stuff that I do. And And it's like, it's really good. Everything's really healthy, but it's almost comically healthy where I was doing it today and I was like, I was like, what am I? I was like, I'm that cliché tech guy.

That's like things have changed.

Fasted cardio. Yeah, I do my fasted cardio and then I, you know, 7 and a half minutes in the sauna. Then I, you know, 11 minutes uninterrupted staring at the sun. It's like I have, I have sex for 3 minutes, 3 times a day. It's studies show that it's better. I'm like doing all these like life optimization customization things that really I'm like, I'm not a huge fan of those things because I feel like individually I like all of them, but together I'm like, am I this delicate that I need to be like this? Uh, you know, like, am I like— I'm not a— I'm not one of these like performance F1 cars or whatever that's like, you know, has to be like perfectly balanced everywhere. I don't want to be so fragile.

You, you are what you are, what you, uh, didn't want to be. Now I think that's good. You look better. You look— I think You look significantly better than you did 3 years ago, that's for sure.

Yeah, but that could be, that could be anything. Who knows? Who knows what that could be?

Um, wait, let me tell you really quick.

I don't know if that's the morning routine, 'cause that's, that's been more recent.

Speaking of morning routines, I gotta tell, I, I was actually excited to tell you about this, so I'll tell you about it more when I'm done with it. But I met this guy on Twitter named Isaac French. Do you know Isaac French? He's that guy.

No, but it's a strong name.

It's a strong name, and that's why I got interested in him. Frankly, but he like, he's that guy who has that—

not gonna lie, French, I'm here for the name.

oh right, we featured him on the pod. Yeah, yeah, a long time ago. And he like called you and he told you all the numbers and all that.

Yeah, and he like architect the whole thing and he like He's also an accountant, so he did all the accounting and then he even like hired all the builders himself. So he was the general contractor. Just this interesting guy. I hung out with him. I met him on Twitter. We actually— I eventually met up with him. He's really fascinating and he's part of this religion, I guess, is the right way to describe it, called Homestead Heritage. And basically, if you're an outsider, it kind of looks like an— like a Mennonite society a little bit, you know, like what Mennonites are.

No, what is that?

You ever seen Amish people? Yeah, so this is like— he would not say that they're the same, and they aren't, but from an outside perspective, it all like looks a little similar.

And so those are the best descriptions where it's like, they'd be kind of offended at this, but this is what it is.

Well, they're, they're like objectively not the same, but like if you go— I posted their website in the, in the thing, uh, in the chat. You'll see guys wearing like those big wide hats, and like there's like a cow or like a horse like tilling the land, and they're walking alongside it. And like a lot of the women wear like the long dresses and like— and so listen to the description of their religion. I— it's a religion, but it's also a community. But listen, Homestead Heritage is an agrarian and craft-based intentional Christian community. Its literature stresses simplicity, sustainability, self-sufficiency, cooperation, service and quality craftsmanship. And so it's this like super—

I don't understand any of that. What does that mean?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, dude. It's hard to explain. It's hard to understand if you don't know. But I spent time with them and he's taught me all this. But like, basically somehow they, they derived from like Christian, from the Bible or something like it's their, like it's their duty or something to like create like high quality craftsmanship like stuff. And to like farm on the land and be sustainable. And like, there's— you find God in like doing hard work and good work and being honest and creating stuff with your hands. That's like, again, this like huge generalization from a massive outside perspective. But basically they like, they like make their own food. So if you— they own 500 acres in Waco, Texas, which is about 2 hours-ish from Austin. And they like— all of their food is like made on that land and like within the community they share food with one another and they're also pretty savvy at business. Like, I don't know how that kind of comes into this, but like they like— he's an accountant and so he's like, oh, I just love like being diligent with numbers. And I'm like, oh my God, you're making me weak at the knees, my man. Like, tell me stuff. So anyway, this weekend he's having like their— it's like their festival. They do like a festival where you can go in and buy like their arts and crafts. And I'm driving 90 minutes to go there. It's like we're going to like sing Christmas songs and like buy arts and crafts. And I'm incredibly excited to show you, like, or to report back about what it's like. This community is so fascinating to me. And so it's kind of interesting.

I'm imagining— do you watch The Office? You know, when Dwight has his Airbnb?

I'm imagining that too.

Yes. Shrewd Farms. That's what I'm imagining. And you're going to go meet Mose. Wow, that is, that is incredible. You know, if you told me if you live this way you can live till 200, I might do it then. That is how big the cost is to me of like, yo, go make, go till your own food. I don't know what tilling is, to be honest with you. I don't know if something you do with your hands or your feet, right? Like, what is tilling?

I think it's when like a cow like pulls along like a rake or something and it like moves the soil, then you can like plant shit in it. I don't know. But yeah, dude, I'll watch that show. I would bet my— well, I bet you these people are pretty happy. I think that there is like happiness and simplicity, but like, who the hell knows? Everyone's unhappy. But, uh, anyway, that's what I'm doing this weekend. I'm gonna report back.

Well, I like that it's kind of like Amish people that love money. That's kind of already intriguing, right? Like, you know, tell me more.

Yeah, which is basically like— have you ever walked around in Brooklyn and like— I know Ben Levy, who's here, like, lived in in this part of— or ish in this part of Brooklyn. Have you ever been around like the Orthodox Jews?

No, but you said they like run the place.

They run the place, man. And they like— you'll walk around in parts of Brooklyn and they'll be speaking Yiddish, or like you go to certain stores and like everything's in Yiddish and you're like, am I in a different country? This is wild. And they kind of like, like you like help others in the community. It's really fascinating. I love these. I actually like those cultures. I think it's really interesting that those exist.

All right. Uh, I think that's it for today. I'm gonna save the rest for next episode.